Published: October 8th 2025, 4:44:05 am
🔥 Myths about sexology: what we need to stop believing
The topic of sex is still surrounded by myths, shame, and rumors. Even in an age of accessible information, people continue to believe in stereotypes that prevent them from building healthy relationships with themselves and their partners.
Let's figure out what's true and what's a misconception 👇
🚫 Myth 1: Only people with “problems in bed” need a sexologist
In fact, a sexologist is not a “doctor for broken parts.”
They help us deal with self-esteem, physicality, communication, emotional intimacy, and even how we perceive pleasure.
Seeing a specialist is about caring, not about something being “broken.”
🚫 Myth 2: Sex should always be passionate and perfect
Reality: Sex is not like in the movies.
Sometimes it can be awkward, funny, or less than perfect, and that's okay.
The most important thing is safety, consent, and pleasure for both parties, not a script of “how it should be.”
🚫 Myth 3: Men always have desire, women don't
Sexual desire does not depend on gender, it depends on context, mood, stress, hormones, and relationships.
Both men and women can want, not want, be tired, anxious, or inspired — we are all living people, not robots.
🚫 Myth 4: Sexology is only about physiology
Sexology is not only about anatomy, but also psychology, sociology, emotions, experience, and even culture.
How we relate to sex is shaped from childhood and is often influenced by upbringing, trauma, and attitudes.
💡Conclusion:
The more we learn about our sexuality without shame and myths, the closer we become to ourselves — and the healthier our relationships become.